Men,
Women & Children - Movie Review by Tony Baksa
10/23/2014
Rating
- 4 Suns
The
internet, social media and all the modern day devices like Ipads, androids and
IPhones provide us with great connectivity - or does it? Yes, we email and
prolifically post on Facebook, Instagram, twitter, blogs and YouTube. We may
feel involved in each other’s lives and to some degree we are. But to what
degree? Have all these platforms for social discourse and self-expression actually
made us less connected? That’s the irony presented to us by producer, director
and screenwriter Jason Reitman in his cautionary tale, "Men, Women & Children.”
It
is a powerfully sad film about private lives and enormous secrets. With a
strong ensemble cast, "Men, Women &Children" pulls no punches in
its frank story of the harm technology does to society - more accurately, the
abuse of technology.
The
large cast of characters includes teenagers with their constant texting - often
times sending messages to friends who occupy their very same space. It should
be funny but it is not. Then there are the adults surfing the web for companionship
outside their marriages. With so much available on the internet from an
abundance of news, games, gossip to misinformation and the illicit, a sort of
worldwide obsession seems to have taken hold.
A
major theme is played out in the story of a suicidal teen believing that
nothing matters. The earth viewed from the perspective of the entire universe,
he feels, is an insignificant dot. Ansel
Elgort as Tim Mooney has latched on to this theory after reading Carl Sagan’s
“Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space”. Tim should be enjoying
his high school years. He is the star football player and admired by the
student body as well as the faculty. Yet, he has gotten this notion into his
head how unimportant football is and therefore winning is especially
meaningless. Tim has come to hate football. So, he has decided to quit the team
to everyone’s dismay including his father. All he seems to care about anymore
is computer games – bloody war games – hours spent on this one lonely endeavor.
His only connection to his absent mother
is through Facebook where, unknown to her, he reads her postings.
Another
teen, full of innocence, is pushed into sudden maturity by circumstances she is
ill equipped to understand. Rude awakenings and unlikely outcomes abound for
all these innocents – young and old alike. All this technology has produced a world
of people leading lives of quiet desperation. Misunderstandings and alienation
are the order of the day.
Adan
Sandler as suburban husband and father Don Truby heads the best ensemble cast
of the year. Yes, Adam Sandler! Rarely associated with serious social drama,
Sandler has probably the best written and most effective scene in the film that
sums up everything Reitman wants to say. It is classic in style and chilling as
Don (Sandler) responds to his wife after secrets and lies are confronted. I was
shocked by his authority in the scene. I hope to see more of this caliber of
work from him in the future.
Also
outstanding is Elena Kampouris as a doe eyed waif disillusioned by her big crush.
She is heartbreaking. Olivia Crocicchia as an aspiring model/actress and her
conspiratorial mother (Judy Greer) bring a new twist to the stage mother myth. Dean
Norris as a middle aged man searching for true love is also commanding. I was
especially taken with Jennifer Garner as an obsessed helicopter mom tracking
her daughter’s every move through a collection of devices. Garner gives an
Oscar worthy performance. The fact is, the entire cast is extraordinary.
"Men,
Women & Children" is a bold film. It is among the most compelling movies
you will see this fall. The narration by Emma Thompson adds an offbeat and eerie
quality to the proceedings. With her cool demeanor and British accent,
Thompson's off screen commentary adds to the disconnect. It is a brilliant stroke.
With
solid and compassionate direction, Reitman delivers the best movie to date on
the dark side of computers, cell phones and the internet - truly a cautionary
tale.
"Men,
Women & Children" is coming soon to an area theater.
http://www.thesunnews.net/scene/973-Men_Women__Children_is_a_bold_cautionary_tale.html