Men, Women & Children

Men, Women & Children - Movie Review by Tony Baksa

10/23/2014

Rating - 4 Suns

The internet, social media and all the modern day devices like Ipads, androids and IPhones provide us with great connectivity - or does it? Yes, we email and prolifically post on Facebook, Instagram, twitter, blogs and YouTube. We may feel involved in each other’s lives and to some degree we are. But to what degree? Have all these platforms for social discourse and self-expression actually made us less connected? That’s the irony presented to us by producer, director and screenwriter Jason Reitman in his cautionary tale, "Men, Women & Children.”

It is a powerfully sad film about private lives and enormous secrets. With a strong ensemble cast, "Men, Women &Children" pulls no punches in its frank story of the harm technology does to society - more accurately, the abuse of technology.

The large cast of characters includes teenagers with their constant texting - often times sending messages to friends who occupy their very same space. It should be funny but it is not. Then there are the adults surfing the web for companionship outside their marriages. With so much available on the internet from an abundance of news, games, gossip to misinformation and the illicit, a sort of worldwide obsession seems to have taken hold. 

A major theme is played out in the story of a suicidal teen believing that nothing matters. The earth viewed from the perspective of the entire universe, he feels, is an insignificant dot.  Ansel Elgort as Tim Mooney has latched on to this theory after reading Carl Sagan’s “Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space”. Tim should be enjoying his high school years. He is the star football player and admired by the student body as well as the faculty. Yet, he has gotten this notion into his head how unimportant football is and therefore winning is especially meaningless. Tim has come to hate football. So, he has decided to quit the team to everyone’s dismay including his father. All he seems to care about anymore is computer games – bloody war games – hours spent on this one lonely endeavor.  His only connection to his absent mother is through Facebook where, unknown to her, he reads her postings.

Another teen, full of innocence, is pushed into sudden maturity by circumstances she is ill equipped to understand. Rude awakenings and unlikely outcomes abound for all these innocents – young and old alike. All this technology has produced a world of people leading lives of quiet desperation. Misunderstandings and alienation are the order of the day.

Adan Sandler as suburban husband and father Don Truby heads the best ensemble cast of the year. Yes, Adam Sandler! Rarely associated with serious social drama, Sandler has probably the best written and most effective scene in the film that sums up everything Reitman wants to say. It is classic in style and chilling as Don (Sandler) responds to his wife after secrets and lies are confronted. I was shocked by his authority in the scene. I hope to see more of this caliber of work from him in the future.

Also outstanding is Elena Kampouris as a doe eyed waif disillusioned by her big crush. She is heartbreaking. Olivia Crocicchia as an aspiring model/actress and her conspiratorial mother (Judy Greer) bring a new twist to the stage mother myth. Dean Norris as a middle aged man searching for true love is also commanding. I was especially taken with Jennifer Garner as an obsessed helicopter mom tracking her daughter’s every move through a collection of devices. Garner gives an Oscar worthy performance. The fact is, the entire cast is extraordinary.

"Men, Women & Children" is a bold film. It is among the most compelling movies you will see this fall. The narration by Emma Thompson adds an offbeat and eerie quality to the proceedings. With her cool demeanor and British accent, Thompson's off screen commentary adds to the disconnect. It is a brilliant stroke.

With solid and compassionate direction, Reitman delivers the best movie to date on the dark side of computers, cell phones and the internet - truly a cautionary tale.

"Men, Women & Children" is coming soon to an area theater.

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